Friday, October 24, 2025

Early deaths

Yesterday evening, my wife and I were watching the television news when an item was broadcast showing the eulogies at a funeral from one of the dead hostages whose body was return from Gaza. The funeral was accompanied by songs by a Moroccan singer, Amir Benayoun, whose voice is an acquired taste, and - how can I put this diplomatically - I haven't acquired the taste. I told my wife that I don't want him singing at my funeral, and she agreed, saying that she would rather try and get Nick Drake to sing.

I don't remember what my initial reaction to this was - amusement? disbelief? - but swiftly I told her that Nick died in 1974 at the age of 26. I then told her the edited highlights: how everyone involved with his first two records thought that they were wonderful, but that they never sold. Nick barely performed live (did I see him in 1970 with Fotheringay1? I still don't know) so he could hardly keep himself in the public eye. I told her how the disappointment at the commercial failure caused him to spiral into depression, and how he died. What it suicide or misadventure? No one will ever know. I told her of the popular renaissance that began in 1999 when Volkswagen used 'Pink Moon' in an advert (why that song? I have no idea) which caused his sales to suddenly come alive.

I should point out at this stage that my wife can identify the Nick Drake songs played on the radio, and the 'Unhalfbricking' version of 'Who knows where the time goes' is one of her favourite songs. She didn't like a few other songs that I sent her that are similar in style; I shall try with 'The sea'.

Following on from Nick, I told my wife of the last weeks of Sandy Denny: the drinking, Georgia and Trevor Lucas. At the end of the 1990s I was very involved in the Sandy Denny legacy, meeting and spending time with Sandy's close friend, Miranda Ward, and even copying discs for Georgia. I told her about Sandy's last concert tour that I was able to see and how a live album was made of the final concert, released in 1998. I told her how I had contributed some background material - a ticket, an album advert - for this project. 

As it happens, a few days earlier I had been ripping my Sandy discs to the computer, in the same way that I did with Richard Thompson's early work2. By chance I had looked at the booklet accompanying the album made of that final concert and was pleasantly reminded that my name appears in the sleeve notes.

So I dug out the disc again and showed the insert to my wife. She was suitably impressed. I also am thanked in a book about Sandy Denny.

But what song would I like played at my funeral? In a sense, I don't really care, and it also might well be that other people's perceptions of what might be the best song to be played won't match with mine. I think that I would like to be remembered by a song I wrote several years ago, 'Take these few words'.

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